You can only do what you know until you know how to do better


Drama. It happens when three characters are involved. A victim, a persecutor and a rescuer.  Step out of this game and drama stops. Only we don’t always know that we are doing this , because of other factors. It may be behaviour rooted in trauma, or in a in a place that is so deeply subconscious that we don’t recognise a clear pattern.

The truth is that we are locked in cycles of action that will always be based on only what we know how to do. Our external results when unsatisfactory to the point of pain, tell us that something isn’t right. Even then, it is only when we fully accept that the results are unacceptable. Why am I saying this?

There has to come a point in your life (of pain) where you say, “I am not getting the results I want. How can I make this different?” If your results have always been based on application of what you know consciously and subconsciously- then the change needed is this. Go and find out what it is that you need to know to get better results.  Sometimes this magic is not the new knowledge but how to apply the knowledge you have. There are many nuances here.

When you are willing to risk different results, by expanding your knowledge – you will see progress. Until then it is the hamster wheel of doing what you do, and being surprised that you have not moved forward.

About Fiona

Fiona helps high achievers change their results to align with their purpose and goals.  Make the transition from Power-filled to

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